Unless you're from South Philly or know someone who is, you probably call
this dish something more traditional, like spaghetti. But back where the
Romano family that I talk about in Entertaining
Guests come from, pasta is "noodles" and tomato sauce is
"gravy." Go figure. You want light understated sauce on al
dente pasta. You better stop reading right now. You want to put some
meat on your family's bones? Come on in. This recipe uses two pounds of
spaghetti, so it will serve a family of four. Bigger families mean bigger
pots and proportionally more food.
Chop the onion and garlic finely and
saute them in olive oil until the garlic starts to get brown. If you're
making meat balls, do this step in the same pan you've used for cooking them
and make sure you scrape up all the bits of meat that adhere to the pan.
Add
the tomatoes and tomato paste to the onion and garlic, and season to taste
with salt, pepper, basil and oregano. Cooking texts will tell you that
adding the herbs this early will cause them to lose most of their flavor.
True. Tough. That's the way they do it back home.
Taste the mixture
in the pot. Sometimes the tomatoes will be too heavily acidic, and you will
want to add sugar. This is personal preference.
Now bring the sauce
to the simmer (careful: don't scorch the tomatoes), partially cover it and
let it cook for four hours. Check it and stir it occasionally. If it gets
too thick, add some water. Save the tomato paste can to do this with. If
you're having a little bit of vino while you cook, you can use it instead of
water.
When the gravy is almost done, cook up the noodles in plenty
of boiling salted water, with a little bit of olive oil added to prevent
sticking. Cook it up good, until you're sure it's not going to give your
family stomach aches.
Combine the noodles and gravy in a large
serving dish and put it on the table. Do not let your family have any peace
until everyone has had at least two plates full.